As a realtor, I consistently told people not to refinance their houses year after year to buy cars, go on bvacations/b, etc. However, the average person would not listen to me because they saw their homes going up in value day by day. b....../bbjelow/b, October 8th, 2008 7:03 pm ET. Michele Obama?like Barack?know how to be coo and respectful. They can disagree w/o being disagreeable. Cindy McCain, on the other hand?now has a speaking role in McCain's increasingly negative ...